Relationships

You know,

I really think some people come into you life at the wrong time

like how they say wrong time wrong place,

i believe that

and with that being said....

i wish you came now

cuz i'm ready

I was thinking about relationships cuz i had some debates with my sister and a friend. I was thinking about the different relationships you have in your life and... being the lover of love that I am, i think life is all about relationships. All kinds of relationships. but i think the strongest are the closer, more intimate ones. The ones you have with a "soulmate".

and that being said, i just don't believe that anyone is "meant" to be alone. Part of our journey is searching for that soulmate. I don't think there is only one person in the world for everyone. But I do believe in finding someone that completes you. Finding someone that makes you the best you that you could possibly be.

So...

Here is my fantasy land:

A land where relationships really Do matter. Where instead of fighting with with each we lift each other up. I know I know I'm living in Utopia, but how great would it be? In my world,

rather than trying to compete and beat each other down on the way, we build each other up.... the world would be such a happy place. Rather than jealousy, there would be satisfaction. No more hating on each other, instead, we would be happy for each other. Something else I really believe in is random complements and acts of of kindness. There are little things we can do for each other that don't take much from us but mean a lot the recipient. I remember years back I complemented an old lady on her hair and it seemed to have made her whole day. She told me she just got a hair cut after much deliberation and she was very insecure about it. A few kind words go a long way.

I think people are precious. We all have our unique stories that make us who we are and it is really important for us to really get to know each other and value relationships.

Because...

when it comes down to it,

We can never really know ourselves without relating to people

and then

when it comes to you,

i just want it all....